Bob update

Bob has been moved to a room now. He is in pain but they are managing that well. Mum has come round to the idea that cumiden and alcohol won't mix well for life. So, that at least is a relief. I am not doing very well with all of this. The walls that my family has built around Bob and his behaviour make me very uncomfortable and when I speak honestly about the situation I get told to stop *yelling* at people. Really, I'n not yelling. I'm just giving voice to things they don't want to hear. I know this is stressfull for everyone but I just wish that one person in my family could be supportive without being *Mary Sunshine* or *Mr. Doom and Gloom* . Neither is very helpful and so unbalanced. Can we not just say how we feel and not have to drag along all the old crap from our childhoods? Apparently not!